Mother sparks controversy by criticizing parents who advise others to “enjoy their children” – MAG.

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Hannah Findlay is a New Zealand mother who aired her discomfort on Instagram What happened? The woman revealed how much she dislikes other parents trying to tell her what to do with their children when they advise them to “enjoyment”. His publication generated controversy in the said social network when your history it was done trend.
“I don’t need to be told to enjoy this moment. I literally risked my body to make this dream of mine a reality. There is no one more grateful for these children than I am… Can we universally erase this phrase? You’ve forgotten all the hard things, and you miss the softness, the smallness of your little ones now that they’re grown, but we’re still there. In those long days and short years. Messy kitchens and full hearts.”, says the mother of two children.
The 36-year-old woman continues to make a suggestion: "Can we retire the 'enjoy every moment' approach and replace it with a shoulder massage? That's a reminder that we're actually doing a good job.".
When the post went viral on Instagram, Good Morning America He contacted the New Zealander, who confessed that the publication made in September now gives her a different point of view.
“Since I had my baby, things have been very difficult for me, and while I enjoy my daughter and love her, it's also okay to say that there have been some very difficult times, too. It wasn't until I had my daughter that I realized it's okay to feel this way."I don't have to feel guilty or feel like I have to enjoy every minute because, in reality, it's very difficult at times, and I don't think mothers give themselves enough permission to feel both.".
He insisted that such a feeling is not only restricted to motherhood, but to various aspects of life: "You know, we don't enjoy life all the time. We don't turn to someone who's having a bad day and say, 'Well, enjoy life all the time.' We don't do that, but we seem to want to say that to mothers.".
She also tells us that she began writing down her thoughts four years ago, after the birth of her first baby, a very complicated one: “I had an account of Instagram "Before motherhood, it was photos of me and my dog, with a couple hundred followers. Then, I had my baby girl in 2018. It was a difficult pregnancy, with a traumatic delivery, which left me with some birth injuries and a huge impact on my body that I really hadn't anticipated.".
Today, he has found a group of mothers with whom she shares her experiences, but also her feelings about what it means to be a mother: “I've made incredible friendships with some women. We're connected through these shared experiences and this shared trauma. And then, as we grow and move forward with these experiences, we become just mom friends, which is so nice. Honestly, I wouldn't have been able to do motherhood without this platform to express myself.”, he sentenced.

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